Singlehood
The Role of Ring Holder At The Chuppah
“How are you holding up?” – This is the recurrent text I’ve learned to expect in the days following a…
Whole, Body & Soul
I remember being eight years old and getting on a scale. I was offered $1 for every pound I would…
Shifting Perspectives
On March 3, 2020 I was sitting at a continuing education course with some colleagues. I remember getting texts on…
“What’s the Big Deal?”
The COVID-19 pandemic has affected everyone. Some physically, some financially, many, if not most, emotionally. Each one of us typically…
Alone
Fiction Mindy sits in the neurologist’s waiting room. To her right and left, patients—most with pinched brows and downturned lips—flip…
The Failings of Solely Focusing on Beauty
As women, we know that we need to take care of ourselves. We should eat nutritious food, dress in a…
Coming Full Circle
Facebook is all about celebration. We see each other’s seemingly perfect lives. The pictures of birthdays, Broadway musicals, picnics, weddings,…
The Challenge of “One Size Fits All” in Dating
The importance of creating a good Jewish home has been drilled into most members of the Orthodox Jewish community from…
Layers Platform Feedback: Top Ten Things A Shadchan Should Know
Many people in our Jewish communities date and find their spouses through the mechanism of “Shidduch Dating.” What that means,…
Dating: Let Us Trust Ourselves
I was on my way home from work last week when my friend Ayala called. “I need to vent. I…
Widowhood as a Single Mom
The hardest thing I have ever done was when I had to tell my five year-old daughter that her father…
“Overweight” and Loving Myself
I have been overweight my whole life. For as long as I remember, I’ve been “the fat girl.” It’s so…